JEALOUSY OF YOU

Jealousy from others especially when it is directed at your Growth, Success, or Authenticity can feel draining or even dangerous if it turns into sabotage, gossip or Spiritual and Emotional projection. Protecting yourself from that kind of energy, while not shrinking your light, takes awareness, boundaries and grounded inner work.

People that are Jealous of you are aware of your Value and Worth and instead of being inspired to do better, they are threatened as you make them aware of how they are lacking.  This is the Driving Force behind those that are malicious to the innocent. 

Here is how to protect yourself without letting others' jealousy control you:

1. Don’t Dim Yourself

• The first mistake people make is shrinking or toning themselves down to avoid making others uncomfortable.
  
  

• But your Light is not the problem. Their reaction is their own inner work.
  
  

Remember: You are not responsible for someone else's feelings of Inadequacy or Comparison.

2. Discern vs. React

• Not everyone deserves access to your full self.
  
  

• Observe people: Do they genuinely celebrate others' wins? Or do they get quiet, cold, or sarcastic?
  
  

• Do not confront unless necessary, instead, quietly shift your availability.
  
  

3. Energetic Boundaries

You do not need to be psychic to feel energy as you already know when someone’s Jealousy is “in the air.”

Protective practices:

• Daily grounding: Sit, breathe, visualize roots going into the earth.
  
  

• Shielding: Imagine a soft, light-filled field around your body that only lets love in and out.
  
  

• Smoke clearing: Use tools like copal, palo santo, or sage to cleanse spaces and sweetgrass to cleanse your thoughts .
  
  

• Salt baths or showers to clear heaviness.

• Repel and Rebuke all Spiritual Attacks (words meant to destroy your spirit like roundup)
  
  

4. Limit Vulnerable Sharing

• People do not need to know everything about your wins, plans or inner life.  Malicious People will attempt to use it against you.
  
  

• Oversharing gives people access to project their Insecurities onto you.
  
  

• Practice sacred privacy as your joy is sacred, not always public.
  
  

5. Turn Jealousy Into a Mirror (For Yourself Too)

• Jealousy is often unexpressed longing sometimes even from people who Love you. 
  
  

• If you can, have Compassion, but keep healthy space. Healthy People are not Mean.
  
  

• Also, watch your own reactions: Are there areas where you feel jealousy? Use it as inspiration, not poison.
  
  

6. Speak Power into Yourself Daily

Jealousy thrives when your energy is shaky and you do not realize your own Power, Value and Abilities.

Reinforce your energy with affirmations like:

• I am protected and grounded in my truth.
  
  

• I am safe to shine.
  
  

• Other people’s shadows are not my burden.
  
  

• My light uplifts and does not threaten

• I deserve to be here as much as anyone else

• I know my Worth and no one can diminish it

• Unhealthy people try and Hurt Those with  Light
  
  

7. Keep Your Circle Clean

• Over time, upgrade who you allow in your inner circle.
  
  

• Surround yourself with people who cheer for you, not compete with you.
  
  

• It is okay to outgrow people who ca not handle your evolution.

• Remind others of their  Good Qualities

• Show others they have Gifts to Offer
  
  

8. Spiritual Protection 

Depending on your path, you might use:

• Prayer or asking Protection from Ancestors, Spirit Guides, or Divine Beings.
  
  

• Amulets, stones (like black tourmaline, obsidian), or ritual baths.
  
  

• Intentional candles or Energy Work to cut cords and clear envy-based energy.

• Visualize all negative attachments disintegrating with each exhale and a force field of protection with each inhale