How to Forgive Others

Forgiving others is challenging.   Our Ego gets in the way. We often believe that Forgiving someone helps the other person but not us, so we Choose to hold a Grudge.

Forgiveness is a Gift that we give our Self in order to break the attachment to pain and suffering.  It really has nothing to do with the other person.  

Healthy People do not Harm themselves and Others, so we can come to the conclusion that those that harmed us are not mentally well. 

Those that maliciously harm us fall into one of two categories, they are doing it to destroy us or they are protecting themselves from us, which can either be because of something that you have done or something that they believe that you have done. 

Communication is difficult but when you find out the reasons for abuse, it makes it easier to Forgive. 

Sometimes we realize they are SICK.

Other times, we realize they misinterpreted something and are very Hurt or Someone else triangulated them into believing something about you and they responded. 

Things are not always as they seem, which is why we are never to Judge, because even when we are harmed maliciously, we can be adding fuel to the fire of Darkness. 

Forgiveness is no longer being attached to the person that harmed us. 

Forgiveness is a Safety mechanism we Choose to eliminate unnecessary stress and Painful Emotions.

Forgiveness is a Choice to Let Go and Surrender to God so that we can have Peace.

Let us Pray.

Thank you, God for forgiving me of all of my past transgressions, and please, God, remind me of your Grace, with me so that I can apply it to those that I struggle to Forgive. 

Amen