Infatuation with Someone

Girls are often depressed because their ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend.  They often take their anger and jealousy out upon the girl.

LOVE IS NOT OWNERSHIP.   

We all need to understand and TEACH our Children this.

Understanding that love is always unconditional will make life easier for everyone.

Teach our children that if we love someone, we accept their free will to make their own choices about who they spend their time with.  Get them to see that when someone has a crush on our child and they do not feel the same way, they can politely turn them down and expect their boundaries to be respected.   The same goes for whomever they have feelings for.  

Teach our children to accept “no” for an answer and not demand reasons why.

Teach our children not to take it personally when they are turned down.

Teach them not to try and convince anyone of their worth.

Teach our children it is not rejection, but making space for someone that is truly meant for them.

TEACH OUR CHILDREN TO RESPECT THE NEW PERSON THEIR EX IS WITH.    

Teach them LOVE AND COMPASSION. There is no reason to be jealous.  Some things and people are just not meant for us. 

Love should never bind someone to us unwillingly. Nor us to someone else.  Love should never make us feel obligated, guilty, ashamed or sad.

We should not have to beg or convince someone to be in a relationship with us.

Teach our children to be happy for EVERYONE and wish EVERYONE their best life ever.  Even if it is not with them.

I promise you, sharing this with our children is extremely valuable information and ensures much more quality relationships for them in the future.